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Whether or not you realise it, your money story has played a part in the money decisions you\u2019ve made all throughout your life.<\/span><\/p>\n In fact, it\u2019s safe to say that, on some level, it\u2019s impacted your choice of career, job, investments…maybe even your choice of spouse!<\/span><\/p>\n How can I say that?<\/span><\/p>\n Because I too have a money story. We all do, and our beliefs about money can impact our decision making process because the concept of money includes an emotional component.<\/span><\/p>\n And we all know, that making decisions with your emotions can prove disastrous.<\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text_H3: ” background_layout=”light” text_orientation=”left” header_font=”Open Sans||||” use_border_color=”off” border_style=”solid” disabled=”off” saved_tabs=”all” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” background_size=”initial”]<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text_B:” background_layout=”light” text_orientation=”left” use_border_color=”off” border_style=”solid” disabled=”off” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” background_size=”initial”]<\/p>\n If you believe that money is bad and wanting more is to be greedy you\u2019ll make choices that mirror what you feel. Hence, you may choose low paying jobs or spend money on things that you don\u2019t really need just to get rid of it!<\/span><\/p>\n Does money buy happiness? <\/span><\/p>\n Some say yes, others say no, but what it can do is reduce your stress levels. <\/span><\/p>\n For example, if you\u2019re constantly worried about not having enough or you\u2019re afraid of losing your job, your stress levels would be significantly reduced if you had some \u201crainy day\u201d money set aside.<\/span><\/p>\n Other areas of your life that could be impacted by your money story are your:<\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image admin_label=”Image_384px” src=”https:\/\/www.trc-gorod.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/shutterstock_519682192.jpg” alt=”stress level” show_in_lightbox=”off” url_new_window=”off” use_overlay=”off” sticky=”off” align=”left” force_fullwidth=”off” always_center_on_mobile=”on” use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_width=”1px” border_style=”solid” 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Object%93″ header_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_2_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”header_2_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_2_text_shadow_vertical_length=”header_2_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_2_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_2_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_3_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”header_3_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_3_text_shadow_vertical_length=”header_3_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_3_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_3_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_4_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”header_4_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_4_text_shadow_vertical_length=”header_4_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_4_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_4_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_5_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”header_5_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ 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average, and that your parents were especially good at money management.<\/span><\/p>\n Whatever your money story, be assured that on a subconscious level you\u2019re thinking things about yourself and about the role that money should play in your life, that may not necessarily be true.<\/span><\/p>\n In fact, your beliefs could be doing more harm than good.<\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image admin_label=”Image_384px” src=”https:\/\/www.trc-gorod.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/shutterstock_361650659.jpg” alt=”money story” show_in_lightbox=”off” url_new_window=”off” use_overlay=”off” sticky=”off” align=”left” force_fullwidth=”off” always_center_on_mobile=”on” use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_width=”1px” border_style=”solid” custom_css_main_element=”max-width: 384px;” disabled=”off” animation_style=”slide” animation_duration=”500ms” animation_intensity_slide=”10%” animation_direction=”left” show_bottom_space=”on” \/][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text_H3: ” 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header_2_text_shadow_vertical_length=”header_2_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_2_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_2_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_3_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”header_3_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_3_text_shadow_vertical_length=”header_3_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_3_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_3_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_4_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”header_4_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_4_text_shadow_vertical_length=”header_4_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_4_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_4_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_5_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”header_5_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_5_text_shadow_vertical_length=”header_5_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_5_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_5_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_6_text_shadow_horizontal_length=”header_6_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_6_text_shadow_vertical_length=”header_6_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ header_6_text_shadow_blur_strength=”header_6_text_shadow_style,%91object Object%93″ z_index_tablet=”500″]<\/p>\n Begin by taking an honest look at money. Don\u2019t give it more power than it has.<\/span><\/p>\n It\u2019s simply a tool…nothing more, nothing less.<\/span><\/p>\n Then, think about your own relationship with money. Has it kept you from making smart choices such as investing in houses or creating an emergency fund?<\/span><\/p>\n What are your fears surrounding money? Are you afraid you won\u2019t have enough or that you\u2019ll have it taken from you?<\/span><\/p>\n Narrow down your fears and beliefs about money then have a realistic look at those fears as an adult. <\/span><\/p>\n For example, if your fear about not having enough money stems from something like food or housing insecurity as a child, try to think about what happened as if you are an outsider, looking in.<\/span><\/p>\n Be realistic about what you really faced and realise that you are in control of your own choices. You can make decisions about your own money based on your situation now, as an adult. <\/span><\/p>\n In other words, you didn\u2019t have control as a child, when your money story was being created, but you do have control now. <\/span><\/p>\n Realise that making plans for your financial future…such as investing in houses …is a proactive way to address your fears. <\/span><\/p>\nWhat a money story can impact <\/b><\/h3>\n
Your earning power<\/span><\/i><\/h4>\n
Your stress levels<\/span><\/i><\/h4>\n
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What\u2019s your money story?<\/b><\/h3>\n
How to change your money story<\/b><\/h3>\n