{"id":2200,"date":"2016-10-06T06:29:28","date_gmt":"2016-10-06T06:29:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.trc-gorod.ru\/?p=2200"},"modified":"2016-10-10T00:20:51","modified_gmt":"2016-10-10T00:20:51","slug":"will-living-well-retirement-just-living","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/trc-gorod.ru\/will-living-well-retirement-just-living\/","title":{"rendered":"Will You Be Living Well in Retirement… Or Just Living?"},"content":{"rendered":"
So you\u2019ve had a chat with your financial advisor and worked out what you\u2019ll need to do to prepare for retirement.<\/p>\n
Fantastic!<\/p>\n
But, have you given some thought to both you and your partner\u2019s expectations of what your day to day life will be like once you\u2019ve retired?<\/p>\n
Retirement requires a different mindset than the one you\u2019ve got right now.<\/p>\n
Instead of simply building and saving you\u2019ll be spending some of your nest egg.<\/p>\n
While that may be disconcerting, it\u2019s been the plan all along, right? You save and invest for a time and then begin to live life on your terms…take back your time.<\/p>\n
Realise, however, that your personal money attitudes – those beliefs and habits which have shaped your life thus far – won\u2019t change once you retire.<\/p>\n
The expectations you have of what life will be like in retirement can put a great deal of stress on your relationship if you fail to address them from the outset.<\/p>\n
For example, would you rather be improving your swing every afternoon but your partner would rather you spend time with them?<\/p>\n
Or perhaps you and your partner have different ideas about how to spend your discretionary income.<\/p>\n
Whatever conflict surrounding your time and money that you might face now, realise that if it\u2019s not dealt with it will only be more keenly felt after retirement.<\/p>\n
Traditional forms of retirement planning make assumptions that might not be true and fail to recognise that circumstances – and people – change over time.<\/p>\n
It assumes that:<\/p>\n
While this may be true for some, what if you\u2019ve worked hard and sacrificed all of your life for retirement only to discover that you and your partner are miles apart?<\/p>\n
What if you believed that once you had more time on your hands or a certain amount of money in the bank that everything will be better…but it\u2019s not?<\/p>\n
It\u2019s devastating when reality hits you and you\u2019re left with the fact that your dream retirement is just that…a dream.<\/p>\n
This is why it\u2019s crucial to address these issues now rather than later.<\/p>\n
Effective retirement planning should take into account different priorities between a couple in terms of:<\/p>\n
Your planning efforts need to focus on what it will take for each of you to live \u201cwell\u201d rather than simply what it will take for you to become \u201cwealthy\u201d.<\/p>\n
In addition to thinking about your daily schedule and how you\u2019ll spend your money, it\u2019s important to talk about the emotional side of retirement.<\/p>\n
Certain fears, realistic or not, like dying homeless, running out of money and\/or having to go back to work can strain any relationship. Often these fears can lead us to make decisions that might not be understood by our spouse or which may lead them to feeling hurt or resentful.<\/p>\n
When you address these fears with your spouse – who may have fears of their own about your relationship, the kids or identity type of fears – you can put a plan in action to resolve them together.<\/p>\n
Perspective is so very important. Realise that:<\/p>\n
Remember why you and your spouse fell in love. Each of you have a unique perspective on life and you each have certain things that bring you satisfaction.<\/p>\n
When you spend time doing those things you love to do you bring joy back to the relationship.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t let yourself become resentful if your partner doesn\u2019t want to have lunch with you every day or if they want to spend some time alone or with their friends.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s important, however, to strike a balance. Don\u2019t be selfish with your time and\/or money. When each of you give a little to the other you\u2019ll enjoy retirement so much more.<\/p>\n